Frequently Asked Questions.
1. Why should I try a support group?
Would you like to connect with other parents/ caregivers who share your doubts, fears, hopes and dreams? A support group is a safe place where you'll find comfort, reassurance, respect and understanding.
2. Will I fit in?
You are welcome to attend a Caregivers Connections Support Group if you are a parent, or other adult in a parenting role, who feels isolated, overwhelmed, or frustrated with your children's behaviors. We come from many different backgrounds and for many different reasons. You may feel shy or nervous at first, please know that you are not required to speak, but may join in conversation when you feel ready.
3. Do I have to fill out any paperwork to attend meetings? No.
4. Who's in charge?
All the parents in the group are in charge of how the group runs. We are the experts - at least about our own families. Trained group facilitators help our meetings run smoothly.
5. What does it cost?
All meetings are free.
6. How often do groups meet?
Groups meet the first and third Mondays of the month from 6:00 p.m. to 7:30 p.m.
7. What kinds of concerns are discussed?
Any that are brought up...Discipline problems; babies who stay awake all night; constant arguments at home; an ADHD child; school suspensions; no time for ourselves; children who won't listen; disagreements with a spouse regarding discipline and rules; kids who constantly talk back; unrealistic expectations; teens who are skipping school; our own history as an abused or neglected child; the myth of the "perfect parent;" and no one to talk to who could possibly understand....and that is only the beginning...... It is important to share your skills, knowledge, and experiences and not to give advice. If a family wants to try an idea, it is up to them. We respect and support each other's decisions.
8. Do I have to talk?
Only if you want to. Some people like to just listen at the beginning until they feel more comfortable, others are ready to start talking right away.
9. What kinds of strengths do members have?
Courage; Love for our children; hope for the future; a sense of humor; backbone; vulnerability; amazing stories to share; perserverance; skills to share; life experiences of all kinds; determination; faith; a yearning to understand and to be understood; and a willingness to take risks....and more....
10. Is this like a parenting class?
Group meetings focus on the topics and situations that are important to the group's members and can change from week to week. Meetings do not follow a certain program or curriculum. If a parenting class is requested, resources are made available to those who are interested.
11. Will people tell others what I say in the group?
No. Groups are based on confidentiality and trust. What you say in the group will stay in the group. We ask everyone who attends the group to adhere to these values.
12. Can I bring my children?
At this time childcare is not provided. If childcare (or transportation) is an issue, there are resources that can help. Please contact us and we will make every effort to help you attend the meetings. We are currently working to be able to provide a program for children. We hope to have this in place by fall 2007.
13. How long do I have to stay in a support group?
That's entirely up to you. Some parents just come once, others come regularly. Some will come and stay to help others. Sometimes we stay, leave, and come back again when a new situation arises or just want to reconnect. You are always welcome and under no obligation. PLEASE CALL WITH ADDITIONAL QUESTIONS.
WE LOOK FORWARD TO HEARING FROM YOU.